Relationships are Harder Now!

Relationships these days are harder now because conversations became texting, arguments became phone calls and feelings became status. 

Life is more complex now. Now we don’t talk but we text. The feelings became subliminal messages, sex became easy, the word “Love” is used out of context, insecurities became a habit, trust is hard to come by, being hurt became natural & leaving became an easy option. 

Sad but true, relationships are not worth it. Everything is taken for granted, every small reason for a fight has become a reason to quit relationships so easily. There is no depth, no value in the relationships. 

Since nothing stands on strong roots so shaking it up is so easy. Every relationship will get “boring” after you’ve been together for years. Since there is no more commitment and true love, there is no real hard effort to make it right. 

It’s more like window shopping hopping from one window to next for some instant gratification, with nothing serious in mind. Noone is stable as these perplexed emotions have made humans more complex in their behaviors. They say something, they feel something and they react completely to something very different from what they feel. 

There is a deep void inside of everyone. We all are not happy for where we are leading to still we are caught up in this complexity of relationships. Noone takes the step to be the change but we all complain for the pain it gets us when those relationships are not fulfilling. 

Sometimes the longest connections yield very little growth, while the briefest of encounters change everything. The heart doesn’t wear a watch, it’s timeless, it’s priceless. It doesn’t care how long you know someone. What matters is how it resonates with your inner self. 

Let’s not get into the fallacy of relationships.Let the mind and heart open to resonance, that truly enlivens you, wants to commit to you, find value in you, makes you feel the depth of emotions then only you will find a true transformation that begins for nurturing healthy long lasting relationships.