Explain The Real Differences Between Men And Women

Differences Between Men And Women

My daughter asked me to explain the real differences between men and women?

Well this question coming from her was a total surprise but seeing her inquisitiveness around the same, I thought to reply with utmost sanity without getting biased about the social conditioning and disparity that exists in our society. 

Organically Whole

I told her men and women belong to one humanity, and they both have complementary qualities. They both need each other, and only when they are together are they whole.

Most of the differences between the two are not contradictions but are to make them unique and attractive to each other.

And for the rest of the socially imposed differences are because of thousands of years of conditioning and are not fundamentally correct to the essence of individuality.

Neither Equal nor Unequal

I reinforced that men and women are neither equal nor unequal, they are unique. Both have a tremendous capacity to bring something miraculous into existence and you are one of the outcomes.

She was elated to hear that she is admired as a miracle and to boost her sense of femininity, I told her that as a woman you are capable of producing life and that puts a tremendous responsibility on you to nurture a good life out of you.

True Essence

I passed her the virtue of love and an essence of womanhood that she will represent in her various walks of life. I told her that she is more capable of love, empathy, and forgiveness as she nurtures life. So never feel let down or inferior in any way if you come across any situation that questions your integrity.

Imbibing the values, as a responsible nurturer of strong pillars of the society; I envisaged her women as always to be more focused, more serene, more silent, more patient, and more capable of waiting. And all these innate qualities of women never reflect her weakness but the utmost strength, and fluidity.

My Lessons

As women always are more compassionate, kind, and understanding to create an organic society. Don’t get yourself confused between voices of equality and unequal but create a strong space for your existence as an individual.

You are always blessed with talents and a strong sense of aesthetics to build a beautiful home. So it is not enough to just become a success or to accumulate enough money but with your unraveled capacity to change any house into a home, that might also be reaching out to anyone for being on the path of constructive contribution to the society and not destructive mindset.

A woman has the power to enhance, inspire and nurture her man, her family, and her friends to greater heights and potential and yet just be loved in her simple form.

Be proud of being a woman than finding the real differences between men and women.

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