Inner Struggles
The behavior of a person talks a lot about that individual as a whole. That reflects a lot about his or her personality, as well as inner struggles.
“But when one does not complain, and when one wants to master oneself with a tyrant’s grip — one’s faculties rise in revolt — and one pays for outward calm with an almost unbearable inner struggle.”
― Charlotte Brontë
Don’t Judge
Do not be too quick to judge a person. Relationships need some serious investment. It takes time to know a person better. At times behaviors are a reflection of a bad day or something that is not in good taste for the other person around that time.
“Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.”
― Dietrich Bonhoeffer, The Cost of Discipleship
Challenges
People are challenged with so many circumstances in life, that it’s very difficult to understand their pain and struggles.
It needs patience and empathy to understand someone better. One needs to be a good listener, more compassionate towards the other person to understand their situations and struggles they have gone through!
“Life is an experience so gain it and live your life.”
― iamsophie
Don’t Feel Hurt
Most of the time we feel bad for other people’s behavior and feel hurt for their being rude or indifferent to our feelings. But most of the time a person’s behavior has more to do with their own internal struggle than you, you learn grace when you realize this wisdom.
“All bad behavior is really a request for love, attention, or validation.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness
Deep Inside
All of us have been fighting deep inside. We all have our battles to face. Just being more graceful and showing empathy can develop beautiful relationships.
“No one knows what you have been through or what your pretty little eyes have seen, but I can reassure you ~ whatever you have conquered, it shines through your mind.”
― Nikki Rowe
Forget and Forgive
Be kind enough to forget and forgive rather than holding any grudge against anyone. Start loving others, maybe that would help them to heal quickly.
Forgive and forget. It may not change the past but it gives the future a chance.
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