You Lose Yourself in the Bargain
You let the person enter your life without thinking how it would feel when they leave.
In connecting those dots that vibrated through your frequency, you tend to forget that you are losing yourself in the bargain.
Life is not easy and so are the relationships. It gets complicated when the reciprocations are at different frequencies matching different wavelengths.
It’s Easy to Say
It’s easy to say never beg for love, friendship or relationships, but when you are invested in it, it takes hell lot of courage to just let it go.
Relationships are just the reflection of our experiences we have accumulated over the years. We try, we fight, we strive and just one day we find just one reason to just let it go.
It’s painful, takes a lot of you but in the process gives you the reason to be all the more strong. Yes you touch your bottom, feel the lowest low but as per the nature of life we always bounce back much higher and with much more energy to strive for the life we are burdened to live through as per the destiny.
Life goes on despite the fact that we virtually think we set it for ourselves. It takes its course and it keeps forcing us to live through the same experiences with more hardships till we learn our lessons well.
Don’t Beg for Relationship
When you need something, you become vulnerable. Begging for relationship, friendship, love is just very insignificant with the essence of it.
Everyone lives for their needs and relevance. If they stick to you, maybe you fulfill their needs, but if they make you feel invisible and insignificant with indifference then surely you are of no relevance to them.
Don’t waste your energy in manifesting something which doesn’t hold any substance and meaning.
You deserve someone who, with their attention, makes you feel important and present.
When you are in love, you feel the reflection of the same everywhere and you don’t realize that you may be missing on signs that show you enough that the other person is not that invested emotionally with you.
When two people are involved with the same intensity then there would never ever be a reason to beg for. Involvement says more than words. If you are always looking for some assurance and feeling of involvement from the other side, it’s surely missing that intensity.
The person that only looks for you when they need you does not deserve you. Look for the person who is by your side when you need them and not just when it is in their favor. You deserve someone who takes you in and makes you feel important in your life without expecting anything in return.
No Secret Mantra
There is no secret mantra of true relationship or friendship.The person who cares for you will always find one reason out of so many odds to just stick to you and not let you go.
The one who lets you go may like you but doesn’t love you enough to bind you with them. They don’t have enough reasons to make you their priority. So if you are deeply involved this feeling in anyways will not make you happy in the long run.
So investing your emotions is a real burnout when the involvement is not on the same page.
Their lack of interest, lack of time and finding disappointments in you is enough signs to realise there is a frequency mismatch. Best is to disconnect. Be Silent. Go Inwards and Observe what you feel in silence till you find your right answers to bounce back with full energy.
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Emotional Pain
Emotional pain in the brain behaves the same way as physical pain. In this sense we must give importance to psychological distress. As we would never think of ignoring strong pains in our stomach or a tremendous, constant headache; we should never ignore the symptoms which are leading us to mood swings.
Letting go makes you feel distressed but as its rightly said time heals everything. Pain only lasts till you have the potential to bear it. Then as a natural mechanism your body, mind and soul will use all its potential to bring you out of this pain as a much stronger person.