Enslaved to the Habit of Blaming
We always blame the outer circumstances for the limitations we experience in our life. We blame our families, situations, circumstances for our failures, unhappiness. We have adopted the habit of being enslaved to the habit of blaming others.
It’s such insanity, craziness. It makes no real sense to do it. But at some point, we all tend to do it.
We Choose Limitations
We choose to have limitations to the unlimited potential we have in us. We often argue for our limitations. We lay elaborate defense of having no time, no need, no money, no support.
We tend to become vulnerable to our own defenses and then feel sad and hurt for not possesing what we wish to have in life.
This gets us in the vicious circle of our self defenses and we tend to make up stories that life is not easy or that we have always been treated rough, or that right opportunities didn’t come to us on right time, or that we are born with bad luck.
This attitude of blaming outer circumstances disturbs our mental health, and we tend to get jealous, unhappy, disturbed with people around us. We become unhappy for being part of the ecosystem for not justifying right with us, thus leading to depression, sadness and complete lack of purpose in life.
Face the Reality
But the real problem is that we just don’t want to face the uncomfortable situations. We just fail to fight back the hardships. We choose to quit than to face things as they come.
We consciously choose not to take efforts or take decisions to overcome our limitations and accept our situations.
Break the Barriers
To break through the limitations, we need to be limitless. To be limitless, we need to accept all what life throws at us as a challenge and fight our fears.
We need to overcome the resistance to change.
We need to believe in life and all it entails. Pain, Suffering are all deep experiences which makes us mature, stronger and more balanced in life.
When life throws any challenge, we need to be mindful. Accept the situations and learn how to overcome those limitations so that the growth continues on the path of life.
Experience Life’s Grays
We are not here to live as dwarfs. We are here to experience the diverse colors and hues of life. This diversity of experience brings wisdom and true essence to the meaning of life.
There is no true meaning to life if we have not experienced the gray sides of life. These grays brings depth to the character.
Yearning for Happiness
We may yearn for a life without any pain or hardships. But these pains teaches the most significant lessons of life. Moreover if we resist the pain and go after pleasure and distraction, the pain persists and more emptiness we feel in our life.
Create Your Own Heaven or Hell
We have the freedom to change our life, our circumstances and create our own heaven or hell on this earth.
Choose not to blame others and fight the habit to resist change. Open the doors of acceptance to anything and see the limitless potential that you possess within yourself to achieve any limits in life.
Be Boundless
Be boundless, be open, be accepting. Change the approach and outlook towards life and see the infinite possibility life can offer.
Just do it and that’s just would help you find the inner joy to the unlimited potential of life.
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