We always get to hear a lot what women wants in a relationship but there’s rarely space for men to express their relationship needs.
So thought why not giving some space to men and expressing what their needs are in a relationship and what they expect from their women.
Yes Men too have their needs, Women do checkout what they are looking for:
Men wants to feel like your hero.
They love to hear when you appreciate them for their efforts, when you depend on them for your needs. They have been by default designed to show you the world, or at-least an effort to make you feel that ways.
Like Enrique says in his song Hero. Listen on Spotify
So please sometimes take a back seat and let them guide you to the best things in life!
Men long for your acceptance.
They know they are not as perfect as you expect them to be. They know they might not be perfect stacking the dishes in the dishwasher, or leave the toilet seat up, or remember everything that you say them thousand times. But still they want to be loved and accepted for their efforts they are doing for you.
Your acceptance for sure can make your man always try for you to become better, like you really want.
Men don’t want you to leave them in dark.
They want you to express. But while expressing, don’t get into verbal vomit.
Share what you like or dislike, they surely want to listen to you, because they want to make those changes for you but if expressed in positive vibe and not accusation.
Yes they want to grow the bond stronger like you in the relationship!
Men are like squirrels.
They are going to look around and get distracted by shining things. But there is a difference between noticing and wanting.
Don’t get insecured. Just learn the art to chill and relax. Your men won’t go anywhere. Just focus your time on how to make things excited between you and your man.
Men too are longing for the deep connection with you. They too want to be soul naked with you, spending good time with you and won’t mind eating Oreo in bed and watching your favorite movie if you understand your man better.
Men are born logical and they like their communication direct.
So please just because you come from an emotional side of things, don’t expect that your man will understand everything without you saying anything.
Learn the art of straight and effective communication, so that they listen and can do what you really want them to do for you.
Men loves your body.
Don’t overthink and be conscious of your curves. Just love yourself and be confident with your body. They love to see the raw and real you.
And they specially love watching you sweat, when you are working hard on your fitness goals.
At times your routine inspires your man to take care of his body and might join you as companion in fitness goals.
Men like their male dates.
Women like you like going shopping, pubbing or dancing with your girl gang. Same ways men love their male dates.
No offence, but time with their male friends brings life balance, sharpens intellect, and some good man to man talk boost their serotonin which just alleviates their mood to come back to you.
Men likes their women to have their own life!
Not that he doesn’t like to support you or to be with you. But surely they don’t like it when you completely depend on them for every need.
If you want your man to be happy and look forward to your company. Then have your set of friends, activities and passions. Enjoy your life.
Don’t make relationship stand on one leg. Put your relationship on wheels.
One is yours, One is his and together you ride to make it perfect together.
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